Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Premature Ejaculation - Getting Excited too Damn Quickly!

Chess McDoogle.

Premature ejaculation is a very common problem which does have a common, easy solution. You can get lost in the mess of snake oil solutions such as creams and pills and other remedies that doesn't address the real problem. Usually behind these solutions, there lies a fairly easy, straight forward method in dealing with premature ejaculation, which i'll explain here.

Really, premature ejaculation has to do with getting excited too damn quickly! A lot of that excitement is mental excitement. If we can master and control that mental excitement then we can master premature ejaculation. The pills or creams have nothing over the mind. If you master things mentally you'll not only get better results, but you'll get life long results. Permanent results that won't ever fail you.

If you go through a haunted house, chances are you'll get "scared" or least excited and surprised fairly easy. It's pretty ridiculous as you know your entering a haunted house and you know what to expect. Sex is the same way. When becoming intimate you know you're going to get sexually aroused and excited. Yet time after time many males go in and still end up suffering from premature ejaculation.

If you walked into that haunted house with about 5 minutes of mentally preparing yourself for any shocks and surprises to come, obviously you would walk through a lot less shaken. If one were to take more time to prepare they could walk through stone-walled serious without being rattled at all. The same can be applied to sex and premature ejaculation. There are simple mental tricks and techniques which you can go into sex with, and end up not only eliminating premature ejaculation, but also becoming a strong and long lasting lover!

We become so conditioned to believe that arousal is something that "just happens" and we have no control over it. In fact arousal or excitement can be managed and controlled. Obviously it shouldn't be eliminated or the pleasures of sexual intimacy wouldn't be experienced. But instead it should be mentally controlled as not to get excited too quickly. And after the excitement is mentally extended, it can in fact become second nature, thus eliminating premature ejaculation completely and permanently.

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