Quick Ejaculation - 3 Points to Help Deal

Quick Ejaculation - 3 Points to Help Deal
by CHESS MCDOOGLE

Premature ejaculation, or quick ejaculation, can cause many problems for relationships, for dating, and even for the single guy who doesn't date because of it. I will outline three points to consider when dealing with quick ejaculation issues.

1. There is a solution. First and foremost it is vital to get it in your head that there is in fact a solution for quick ejaculation. Just the fact of knowing that it doesn't have to be this way and a solution is indeed within grasp, puts the mind at much more ease. It no longer becomes a problem issue, it now turns into a solution issue, as in, now all i have to do is create the time and investment and the solution to quick ejaculation will arise.

2. You are not alone. An enormous amount of males deal with quick ejaculation. I don't think studies can properly calculate the right percentage and number, because its inevitable it'll come out to low! No one really wants to admit they suffer from quick ejaculation, and a huge amount of others simply don't want to believe they're quick ejaculators when in reality they in fact are. Knowing that this is a far more common problem than anyone wants to really admit, puts the mind at ease, realizing that you are not alone.

3. Don't believe the movies! And this goes for both mainstream and pornography. I would estimate the number of mainstream films that give an accurate portrayal of sexual activity are extremely low. Sex is not all the gloss and glitter and background music and fades, and most importantly as long lasting as it is portrayed to be. In reality it is most always a lot clumsier, a lot less dramatic, and a lot quicker. As for pornography, the performers use various methods to prevent quick ejaculation. Everything from pills, to creams, to quick ejaculation prevention aids. And since it is their occupation, many have practiced exercises that will effectively prevent quick ejaculation.

Quick ejaculation is not as bad as our male minds would like to make it out to be. There are solutions, there are strength in numbers, and there is reality which looks a lot different from the silver screen.

The first step in dealing with quick ejaculation is realizing all of the above factors.

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